How to Behave on a First Date

So you've met someone you're attracted to (or your friends have hooked you up) and you find yourself about to head out on a first date. Many people get nervous because they don't know what to expect, what to wear or even how to behave. If you don't want to screw it up, read below to find out how you can make the first date a successful one.

Instructions  

• Relax. It's only a meeting between two human beings. You do it all the time, but just because you    might like this person or are excited to see them, you put a lot of emphasis on the date. Just be cool, take a deep breath, and focus on the fact that they could be anywhere but made a choice to spend time with you.

• Be yourself. It sounds trite, but if you're not the kind of person who usually opens doors or pulls out chairs, don't pretend to be. It's fine to be courteous, but don't just pull out her chair just because it's a first date. If it's something that you usually do, then go for it. But don't be the person who does it on the first date and then never again.

• Smile. We tend to smile back at people who smile at us. It also shows you as a warm, approachable person.

• Talk. Just remember that it is a meeting, not an interview. Instead of asking questions like "What do you do?" or "Do you like what you do?" ask "What's the best thing about what you do?" It makes the person focus on the positives of their job rather than the negatives. If you find yourself running out of things to say, ask "If you could wake up anywhere in the world tomorrow, where would it be?" People generally think about this one and might even give you more to talk about. Don't bring up old stories in hopes of sympathy.

• Listen. When you pay attention and listen to the other person, they feel like they have your attention and would probably want to spend more time with you.

• Touch, but don't grope. It's important to recognize a person's comfort level, but touching gently on the arms or back is a normal part of flirting. Naturally, if the person feels comfortable from your conversation, they wouldn't mind little touching and might even welcome it.

• If you're out having dinner or coffee, be polite to the person serving you. If you come across as mean to that person, it could prove to be a big turn off.

• Relax. Yes it was step one but it's also the last step. Don't try too hard. Just relax and enjoy the date...um, meeting.

Tips & Warnings

• Always bring extra cash in case of emergency.
   
• Avoid bringing up past relationships or talking too much about your last break-up.

• Some girls act as they are in love with you but she will be thinking of giving a complaint.

• Some girls also hate people who are full of themselves, so if you do decide to play sports, don't brag about it

• Never brag or act snobby; girls don't like people for their stuff -- they like them for looks and personality.

• Beware of gossipers that make big deals out of what you say to girls.

• Do not try to persuade the girl within your track if she complains or explains her thoughts,feelings and thinks of you only as a friend.

• Never hurt the girl that you love. And never start to be just friends then they will only think of you as friends.

• Most important is that the girl will try to tell you that she has bad habits like smoking or drinking but you should never say that you also like smoking or drinking.

• If the girl is way out of your league, make it GRADUAL. Don't make the relationship move too fast.

• Show respect to other girls it's a good thing to attract girl.

Tips

• Compliment her sometimes on something that she doesn't think that you will notice. When she is wearing something a little more special than normal, comment to her that she is looking especially nice. She probably put it on to be noticed, so she'll love the compliment. Even if you don't know anything about fashion, you'll know when she is wearing something nice if she smiles and blushes when you look at her. Just don't go overboard with the compliments. It will just look creepy. Maybe you should just say a compliment once a week, maybe twice a week, tops.

•  Be yourself. Don't try to fake a personality. She will most likely notice, and if the girl you like doesn't like you for who you are, then she's not worth your type. Don't ever change your personality for another person. You are who you are, and if people don't like it, they will just have to deal with it. You are you, and nobody can, or should change that.     

• Occasionally, be a taciturn kind of a person, and do not always chatter. Try to make her laugh as much as possible. Adore her. Don't ask her out instantly, as it will make you desperate in her eyes. Let her be comfortable around you. 

•   Got confidence? You can impress a girl then.

Steps

• Impress her with your brains, act smarter and more mature than those other idiots. But don't come off as a geek or nerd. If you REALLY want to impress her, be interested in her, find her fascinating, listen to her, encourage her to tell you what her opinion is about things, value her input and show sincere respect for her as a person. Do this and you can ignore the rest of the steps in this article.

•  Never try to be physical with her. She might get uncomfortable around you and get scared away.

• Make eye contact as much as you can. Try to get her to know that you notice her.

• Act charming. Have witty conversations with the girl.

• Know the latest fashions, trends, music, movies, and TV shows. Pick up a newspaper or a magazine and read through all of the sections. Get a general knowledge of what is going on in today's teen world so you will have a lot to talk about.

• Make friends with everyone, especially girl friends, but DON'T flirt with every girl you see. Girls might get discouraged and think you like someone else, and then they will stop trying.

• Be the guy who everyone sits around and listens to. Be the all around guy. Be able to talk to the goths, jocks, popular kids, geeks, and everyone else. She will feel way more comfortable around you knowing that you are cool with everyone you know, instead of being the geek in the back of the classroom who has no friends.

• Find out what you both have in common, and make sure that she knows that you two have the same likes and dislikes.

• Make her feel really comfortable around you. Make sure that she knows that she is able to come to you with any problems that she might be having in her life. Also, make sure that she knows that not only can you listen to her problems, but you can also solve her problems, or maybe at least just come up with ideas to help her solve them. Be warned, however. Offering advice is one thing, but girls don't talk about their problems to someone because they want that person to try and solve them all. They want someone who will listen, first and foremost.

• Now here's the big step, say "I like you" first and then ask her out to a movie, or to lunch. If she feels the same way that you feel about her, then she will most likely say yes. Girls usually think that the guy will make the first move, so ask her out whenever you feel like she's close to you.

• Don't let anyone dominate you or do something which is really gonna show you below the mark.

• Be yourself and show her who you really are. Note one thing that every girl has different thinking so try to understand her, and don't over limit yourself.be sincere with her.the truth is if you like yourself everyone will like you.it's not a easy task to attract everyone.you've to be yourself in every moment of your life.the mistake which every man make is when he saw his lover he will be decent.so other will think that because of his lover he is behaving like this.our weapon to attract girls are be with her side not too much over and be a good gentle man

• Some times when you find she is struggling to get back from other activities, try to guide her by completely thinking about things from her mind. This will help her to read and understand your mind to great extent...

Most guys want to impress a girl so she will like him, but most of those guys come about it all wrong, and instead of impressing her, he turns her off. Find out how to turn heads-in your direction.